WELCOME
CLAIM YOUR INNER POWER!
STEP INTO THE NEW CONFIDENT YOU.
Dr. Ellen Carni,
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Hi. I'm Dr. Ellen Carni and I'm so glad you found me. I'm here to support you through grief and loss; young adult transitions; lawyer burnout; trauma; and healing from your toxic mother.
Are you ready to heal your relationship with your toxic mother?
Would you like to find the inner strength to be your own confident person and heal your childhood wounds for good?
I can help you find peace, power, joy and fulfillment. I’ve successfully worked through my own mother wound and can help you do the same. Believe me, life is a lot more exhilarating on the other side, once you rescue and heal your inner mother and inner child.
Are you struggling with:
Making your own life choices without your mother’s disapproval.
Fear of losing your mother (emotionally or physically) if you claim your own life.
Is your mother:
Controlling, smothering, or competitive with you.
Expecting you to parent her.
Running hot and cold so you never know which mother is going to show up.
Ghosting you by being emotionally unavailable.
So often these patterns are hard to discern because they happen insidiously.
I have developed a quick assessment tool for you to tell if your mother is toxic.
If you would like to know how much your mother is influencing your happiness, take this free assessment Click HERE.
How did you score? Is your mother toxic?
If your mother is toxic you may be left with:
Low self-esteem
Perfectionism
Co-dependency
Poor boundaries
Self-sabotage
People pleasing
You may feel:
Guilty
Ashamed
Sad
Angry
Envious
Invaded
Toxic mothering usually starts very early in your life and is the result of generations of family trauma along with the pressures of patriarchal society.
I want to reassure you that you have come to the right place.
I can help you find your own authentic and creative self without guilt or shame.
I will help you make peace with your mother or be okay with going no contact.
More importantly, I will help you heal the inner mother and the inner child who are hurting. Those are the voices you carry with you when your mother is not there.
I can help you wherever you are in the adult lifespan.
I have been there and found peace, power, joy and fulfillment. You can, too.
